Rukmini Swayamvar -

This is not a forceful abduction but a consensual elopement—a rescue. In Hindu tradition, when a woman chooses her husband in a swayamvar, it is lawful. Rukmini had publicly chosen Krishna by stepping onto his chariot.

Unable to express her feelings openly, Rukmini sent a trusted Brahmin messenger to Dwaraka with a secret letter to Lord Krishna. In the letter, she poured out her heart: “O Krishna, slayer of Madhu, I have chosen you as my husband. Please come to Vidarbha before the sun rises on my swayamvar day. If you do not come, I will give up my life. Shishupala is unworthy, but my brother forces this marriage. Please rescue me.” She also detailed the exact time, place, and her plan: On the swayamvar day, she would go to the temple of Goddess Parvati (or Ambika) outside the city before the ceremony. That would be the perfect moment for Krishna to take her away. rukmini swayamvar

However, her brother Rukmi, a proud and powerful prince, despised Krishna. Against Rukmini’s wishes, Rukmi arranged her marriage to Shishupala, the evil king of Chedi (and Krishna’s cousin, though they were enemies). Shishupala was an ally of Rukmi and the Kauravas. This is not a forceful abduction but a