Parasited Pon File
Go through your bank statements. Highlight every recurring charge you haven't used in 60 days. The extraction method: Inertia and shame (you feel too embarrassed to cancel because you forgot you had it). The cure: A "subscription audit" every solstice. Use virtual cards that expire. Make the parasite starve. Parasite #3: The Algorithmic Shepherd (The Pon of Attention) Social media doesn't want your money (directly). It wants your time . Time is the only non-renewable resource. When you scroll TikTok for 90 minutes, you aren't relaxing. You are being milked. Your attention is sold to advertisers. You are the product, but more accurately— you are the livestock.
If you left for two weeks, would the company collapse (showing you are essential) or would they replace you in 48 hours (showing you are a cog)? Usually, it's the latter. The extraction method: Passion exploitation. The cure: Clock in. Clock out. Define your "minimum viable contribution." Do not let your employer access your Pon after 6 PM. Part 3: Why We Allow Ourselves to Be Parasited This is the uncomfortable part. Leeches don't attach to healthy, armored skin. They find the soft spots. parasited pon
Create friction. Remove your credit card from one-click shopping. Set an auto-reply for after-hours work emails: "I am currently offline. Your message will be read during business hours." Put a physical sticky note on your monitor that says: "ARE THEY FEEDING ON ME?" Go through your bank statements
The word "Pon" comes from an old creole term for a vessel or a container—a thing meant to hold value. When you become a "Parasited Pon," you are the vessel. And something else is drinking from you without your consent. The cure: A "subscription audit" every solstice
A parasite consumes. A symbiont exchanges. Find one thing that gives back. A hobby that energizes you. A friend who listens equally. An investment that pays you dividends. A pet. A garden. Fill the void the parasites left with something that adds energy to your Pon. Conclusion: You Are Not a Free Buffet The world is full of opportunists. The internet, the economy, and even some of your loved ones have been conditioned to look for open vessels. They scan for the exhausted, the generous, the conflict-averse, and the distracted.